Weekday, Weekend, or Long Weekend? Choosing the Best Wedding Date for the Ultimate Party
- Chris Poplatek
- May 20
- 3 min read
When you're planning a wedding that's all about the vibe, the party, and unforgettable moments, one big question can sneak up on you fast: What day of the week should we get married? While weekends are traditional, weekdays and long weekends are growing in popularity—and for good reason.
So, let’s break down your options based on what matters most: the party, the guest experience, your budget, and the time of year.
Weekday Weddings (Sunday –Thursday)
Perfect for: Couples who want a more intimate party, a better deal, or a unique mid-week celebration.
Pros:
Budget-Friendly – Venues and vendors often offer discounted rates.
More Availability – Easier to book your dream DJ, glam photo booth, or LED dance floor without the wait.
Low-Key & Intimate – Guests who show up mid-week are there for you and ready to celebrate.
Cons:
Work Week Conflicts – Some guests may need to take time off or leave early.
Earlier Wrap Times – Weeknight energy can dip if people have early mornings.
Party Tip: If you're planning a weekday wedding, lean into a sunset ceremony and a high-impact dance party that wraps by 10 or 11PM. Weeknight weddings can feel exclusive and luxurious with the right mood lighting, cold sparks, and a DJ who knows how to read the room.
🎉 Weekend Weddings (Friday–Saturday)
Perfect for: The classic party weekend with everyone on the dance floor and zero excuses to leave early.
Pros:
Max Guest Attendance – Friends and family are free and in celebration mode.
Full Weekend Vibes – Think welcome parties, Sunday brunch, or an after-after party.
Prime Time for a Party – Late-night dancing, glow-ups, and good vibes.
Cons:
Higher Cost – Prime dates mean higher vendor and venue prices.
Busy Season Conflicts – Especially during summer and fall, guests may be juggling multiple events.
Party Tip: A Saturday night wedding in July with dancing on the clouds and cold spark fountains? Yes, please. But book early—the hottest dates book fast, especially if you want premium entertainment.
Long Weekend Weddings
Perfect for: Destination weddings, extended celebrations, and couples who want to maximize the experience.
Pros:
Extra Day to Party – Use the holiday for pre- or post-wedding events.
Travel-Friendly – Guests have more flexibility to fly in or drive out.
High Energy – Everyone’s in holiday mode and ready to celebrate hard.
Cons:
Higher Travel & Hotel Costs – Holiday weekends often come with surcharges.
Competing Plans – Guests may already have long weekend traditions or trips.
Party Tip: Long weekends are made for multi-day experiences. Kick things off with a welcome party, glam it up with a full wedding day, then send your guests off with brunch or a farewell hangout.
🌸 Timing & Time of Year
Don’t forget that your wedding season influences the vibe:
Spring: Fresh, floral, romantic—weekday weddings shine here with soft lighting and chill energy.
Summer: Peak wedding season. Long days, hot nights, and perfect for wild weekend bashes.
Fall: Moody, magical, and perfect for golden-hour ceremonies and high-style receptions.
Winter: Cozy, classy, and under-rated. Think black tie, candlelight, and indoor dance floors lit to perfection.
So... What’s the Best Wedding Day for You?
Here’s our hot take:
Go weekday if you’re budget-savvy, love the idea of a more intimate setting, and want to stand out.
Go weekend if you want max attendance, a full send-off party, and an open dance floor 'til late.
Go long weekend if you're dreaming of a multi-day experience and a blowout bash.
No matter what day you choose, we’ll help you bring the party to life—from the DJ booth to the photo booth, with lighting, special effects, and high-energy entertainment that makes your wedding one for the books.
At 'Til Death Do Us Party, we're all about helping you create a wedding that’s bold, high-energy, and totally unforgettable. Ready to choose your date and throw the party of a lifetime? 📅 Let’s make it epic — Get in touch!
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